Our Family
Francesco Crinella
Anna Crinella
Domenico Zurlo
Theresa Zurlo
Marino Crinella
Marian Zurlo Crinella
Uncle Domenic
Uncle Lou
Aunt Marguerite
Cousin Marina
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Our History
Wine Beginnings
Our Family
Marian Zurlo Crinella
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Marian Crinella was born in Los
Angeles, near the intersection of First and
Spring Streets, in 1904. This location is
now in the very center of downtown Los
Angeles. From there, she moved steadily
northward, as her father went about
seeking his fortune, finally settling in
Santa Rosa, the Sonoma County seat, in
1912.
As a young girl, Marian enjoyed life in
the strongly ethnic Italian community that
was then located in West Santa Rosa. She
was an eager student, enjoyed singing in
the St. Rose's church choir, and was
Captain of the girls basketball team and
also a good softball player. She also was
selected to become a Child of Mary, one
of the highest honors that can be
bestowed by the Catholic Church upon a
secular woman, being one step below
Papal Countess. After rigorous religious
training which takes many years, a Child
of Mary dedicates her life to her future
husband and the children she will one day
have and also to doing Gods work on
earth. In this way, she follows the
example of Mary, the Mother of Christ.
From late Spring to early Fall, she,
along with her siblings and friends, would
pick fruit--cherries, apples, peaches,
prunes and grapes in the fields West of Santa Rosa. In the winter months, she helped her
father in the store, and developed a good "business head," which was later to become an
essential ingredient in the success of the Crinella family businesses. Not unlike most of her
schoolmates, she opted to leave high school before graduation, to attend business college.
Upon receipt of her business certificate, in 1922, she took a job at the Pacific Gas and
Electric Company office in Santa Rosa, and remained there until she moved to Petaluma in
1933.
Marian was a strikingly beautiful and vivacious young woman, who had many close friends,
both male and female. To the time of her death, at age 90, she remained in contact with many
of her childhood friends who also lived in and about Santa Rosa, and had also lived to a ripe
old age. As a young woman Marian had a rich social life in spite of the fact that she always
worked long hours, and was also subject to a 10 PM curfew, set by her strict old-world Italian
parents. The curfew lasted to the time she was married, at age 29, on August 19, 1933. But
this is getting ahead of the story. In 1925, while attending a dance at the Cotati Women's
Club (which still remains in downtown Cotati), she met Marino Crinella, who had recently
arrived from Minnesota. While she would later admit that it was love at first sight, she was not
about to abandon her other boyfriends, and the formal courtship and engagement was
preceded by a year or so of casual dates, often in the company of several friends. More likely,
Marian was clever enough to realize that the way to capture a strikingly handsome and
sought after man like Marino was not to appear too interested.
Marian was a strikingly beautiful and vivacious young woman, who had many close friends,
both male and female. To the time of her death, at age 90, she remained in contact with many
of her childhood friends who also lived in and about Santa Rosa, and had also lived to a ripe
old age. As a young woman Marian had a rich social life in spite of the fact that she always
worked long hours, and was also subject to a 10 PM curfew, set by her strict old-world Italian
parents. The curfew lasted to the time she was married, at age 29, on August 19, 1933. But
this is getting ahead of the story. In 1925, while attending a dance at the Cotati Women's
Club (which still remains in downtown Cotati), she met Marino Crinella, who had recently
arrived from Minnesota. While she would later admit that it was love at first sight, she was not
about to abandon her other boyfriends, and the formal courtship and engagement was
preceded by a year or so of casual dates, often in the company of several friends. More likely,
Marian was clever enough to realize that the way to capture a strikingly handsome and
sought after man like Marino was not to appear too interested.
Finally, after an engagement of seven years, Marian and Marino married, in a brief
ceremony during the regularly scheduled mass at St. Monica's church, in Santa Monica where
her family had a summer cottage. But, she continued to live with her parents in Santa Rosa,
while Marino built their first home, at 117 Belleview Avenue, in Petaluma, a slow process as
he still had to run his plumbing business during normal business hours and they were paying
mostly cash for the house. Eventually, their tiled roof and stucco, Spanish style bungalow
was completed, and Marian was able to join Marino (Pop). They had a son Francis and and
later daughter Ramona.
They emerged from the war
years as a well-to-do couple.
The family moved from the
pleasant house on Bellevue
Avenue to the large Victorian
house at 252 Howard Street
which was right next door to
Saint Vincent where we
attended school. Marian
particularly missed the
Bellevue Avenue which had
been beautifully furnished and
very modern with all the
latest conveniences. But it
was felt that we would do
better in school if a close
alliance was established
between the nuns who taught
us and Marian and Marino.
The nuns became close
family friends. Pop would take
some of them fishing and
drove them when they needed
to go someplace. Often when
we went to San Francisco to
shop we would have a nun or
two with us, all the better to
have a good long chat about
how Francis and Ramona were
doing at school.
By 1947, Marian and
Marino entered into new
investments including several
car dealerships and land
development projects.
Marian took a less active part
in the family business
because the bookkeeping was
not as labor intensive. Now,
she devoted a great deal of time to St. Vincent's school, which Francis and Ramona attended,
helping with various fund-raising events. She was also able to return to one of her girlhood
avocations, singing in the choir and taking formal voice lessons. For several years, she was
busy remodeling and working with a decorator on the Victorian home at 252 Howard Street,
which she turned into a beautiful and comfortable showplace. Set on nearly an acre of land,
the gardens and lawns were restored and a large playing field was set aside for us in the back.
While no longer able to compete in softball or basketball, her girlhood sports, she took up
golf, in 1950, and played almost every day of the week until she was in her late 70's, and
then several times a week until she was 88, and suffered a broken wrist. In her 90th year,
although no longer able to swing the golf club, she rode around the course with her foursome,
driving an electric cart and keeping score in her head for the group. She knitted all of her life,
and seemed to pick up the pace as she grew older--everything from sweaters to socks to
afghans--and, of course, head-covers for golf clubs. When she died she was also a student at
the Santa Rosa Junior College which she had attended more or less continuously for thirty
years. She was never idle.
Throughout her adult life, Marian was a wise counselor to her parents and siblings,
husband and children, her grandchildren, and a large group of friends. Not much escaped her
notice. She was intrigued by "words of wisdom," whether from the Bible or Reader's Digest,
and she was always cutting out little scraps of inspirational prose to share with others. Her
all-time favorite: "golf reveals your character; play accordingly." Often she would tell her
daughter Ramona, "If you don't have fun today, it is your own fault."
Marian was a very beautiful woman and she loved fashionable clothes. She shopped
frequently in San Francisco until her eightieth year. "When you get a little older, you don't
care quite so much for fashion, " she remarked. She believed buying the very best was the
most economical thing to do in the long run. Her wardrobe consisted of the finest fabrics and
designs from the third floor at I. Magnin and although not extensive she was always
beautifully dressed. Marian believed that the way a person dressed said a lot about their
character and even intelligence. We are still wearing her things twenty, thirty,and even forty
years after she bought them as they are timeless classics.
Probably, if she had chosen to do so, she could have run General Motors very well.
However there was nothing of more interest to her than her family. She certainly kept the vow
she made to God as a young girl.
Marian was always a very busy woman well into her ninetieth year, and while she was no
slouch as an Italian cook, she was always looking for short-cuts so that more time could be
spent on her many other pursuits. In that regard, soups were a favorite, because she could
make up a quantity that could be used for several meals.
Minestrone comes from the Italian "minestrare" (to minister) and has its roots in the
medieval abbeys, where it was the practice of the monks to offer hospitality to any traveler
who came to their gates. They would minister to their guests from a large kettle of soup, that
was kept simmering on the fire at all times. From time to time, new ingredients were added,
but the minestrone pot was never empty.
Marian Crinella developed a recipe that enabled her to cook minestrone much more
quickly than the medieval monks or in the traditional modern Italian method. Nevertheless,
her recipe resulted in a flavor and texture quite indistinguishable from more conventional
minestrone, while still allowing her to get in her daily round of golf. The first prerequisite was
an ample stock of veal broth, which she kept refrigerated in quart jars.
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